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OUR ADVICE FOR CONFUSED:
  A:  Mention it again, maybe he will give you another e ...        46%
  B:  Drop it and see what happens.        29%
  C:  Dump him. He must not really be serious about you ...        25%
Total Votes: 742


Dear Anyone,

I have been dating the same guy for almost two years. We get along great and he is one of my best friends. We met at work and I had just gotten out of a previous relationship of three years. Our relationship is terrific all around except for one thing. I don't feel any passion for him. In fact most of the time when he touches me in "that way" I get turned off. Since we met, he has gained 150 pounds, which I know bothers me, but I don't think that's all of what is wrong. In the beginning of our relationship it wasn't like this, though I have to admit that even then I didn't have passion for him. At least then he didn't turn me off though. This current situation has been going on for about a year now. Every time I hear a romantic song or see a romantic movie I get depressed because I don't feel that way. I know that I love him, but I don't know what is wrong, or what to do.

a 23 year old woman who needs your help

WHAT'S YOUR ADVICE?

Vote for Option A   
A:  When you're getting physical, just imagine he's someone you actually do find attractive (Brad Pitt, Orlando Bloom, Jude Law... take your pick!)
Vote for Option B   
B:  Spark that passionate feeling with a super-romantic night. Get dressed up, light some candles, have a nice dinner, some wine, Barry White...
Vote for Option C   
C:  Whatever you do, don't tell him that you've lost the passion. Try do deal with it on your own. Seek counseling if necessary.
Vote for Option D   
D:  Passion is overrated. There's more to love than butterflies.

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