Dear Anyone,
I'll try to sum this up quickly. I have become good friends with a man. We hang out, take weekend trips, and get together every couple of weeks to share time together. We are sexually active. I love him, he loves me. We don't date because he's not ready to "answer to someone". So we have had a pretty strong relationship for the past year. This has included us limiting our sexual activities to each other. We haven't defined what we have, but feel obligated to each other.
Well he told me his best friend (who is a girl) came to visit him over the weekend. They sleep together each time they see each other and "cuddle". While this last time they didn't actually have sex, they did fool around. I am hurt. But we don't have an exclusive relationship. He feels there was nothing wrong with this since it was only a way to feel good and there were no emotions connected to this. I love him, and hope one day we will move forward with our relationship. But I don't believe this type of thing is right. Am I crazy? What should I do? He knows that I don't think it is right. But his action has hurt me. Do I continue to love him and hope for a relationship or do I just stop in fear of being hurt more?
Stop Loving?
