OUR ADVICE FOR 100% CONFUSED ABOUT THIS MAN:

	A:	Just see what happens between you and go with the ...		30%
	B:	Move on and forget about it...		24%
	C:	Just let him come to you...		23%
	D:	Tell him how you feel... I don't think you can do ...		23%
Total Votes: 1606

Dear Anyone,

I have a boyfriend of five years. We were happy and excited in our first few years, but as time has gone by, it has gotten a little boring and pointless. I've been with him when he needed me, supported him to finish a vocational course, accepted him even if he did not finish high school and shared the same feeling of family rejection. Despite graduating two years ago, he still doesn't have a job. I have been helping him financially while he has been searching but it seems his tactic is waiting for someone to help him out, like family referrals, etc. But I feel that if you really want to have a job, you've got to do everything it takes to find one. I'm 25 and he's 26, almost in a marrying age but I don't see a future with him. Now I met this new guy at work who seems responsible. We went out twice and got along well. I'm thinking of having a 'fresh' relationship with him. Do I have to give up my boyfriend and start a new life with this guy as a mature lady?

Confused with the Old and the New guy

WHAT'S YOUR ADVICE?

	A:	Stick with your boyfriend. He's been with you for five years and it's hard to start a new relationship again.
	B:	Talk to your boyfriend and tell him it's time to move on. Through that he can also prove if he can stand on his own and find a job.
	C:	Continue dating this new guy but keep your boyfriend. Time will tell who you should choose.

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