OUR ADVICE FOR HOPELESSLY IN LQVE:

	A:	Don't say anything and just let her go.		31%
	B:	Forget and Move on.		25%
	C:	Talk to her.		21%
	D:	Tell her there's no one else you want to be with.		23%
Total Votes: 1411

Dear Anyone,

My fiance recently decided that he wanted to cancel our wedding (a TOTAL shock to me) which was supposed to be in 3 months. He said that he isn't ready to get married. We have been together for 6.5 years, and now I am wondering if he will ever be ready. I do love him and want to marry him, and he says that he loves me and wants to be with me. Every little detail of the wedding had been planned and paid for. I am confused about what I want to do: stay with him and risk being hurt even more, or move on? Oh, and he is still going to Vegas for his bachelor party, however, it is not technically his bachelor party anymore. I need advice...

Confused in Buffalo

WHAT'S YOUR ADVICE?

	A:	Marriage is a big scary step sometimes. Give him some more time and see what happens.
	B:	If he's not ready after over 6 years, then there's probably something wrong that will never be fixed. Leave him.
	C:	Tell him that marriage is important to you. Then give him a clear deadline by which time you need to be hitched or he will be ditched.

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