OUR ADVICE FOR COMPLETELY PERPLEXED IN CT:

	A:	Wait until you feel the sister is mature enough an ...		32%
	B:	Keep your friendship going and feel lucky enough t ...		23%
	C:	Move on for now - if it was meant to be it'll sure ...		24%
	D:	Forget about it completely. Dating your ex's siste ...		21%
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Dear Anyone,

I feel a bit of an idiot doing this, but hey... I have fallen for one of my friends, and I get the feeling he kinda feels the same way, but he lives with his girlfriend. I get all the signals that he likes me (including copying of body language) but he blows either very hot or very cold to the point of ignoring me. We are very, very similiar, and have almost identical thought patterns to the point where it's scary!

Confused Ami Ever in London

WHAT'S YOUR ADVICE?

	A:	Forget him and move on. Blowing hot and cold is not a signal that he likes you.
	B:	Tell him and risk his girlfriend coming after you. You never know, he might leave her for you.
	C:	Send him an "accidental" e-mail explaining your feelings, and if things go bad, then say, "Oops, meant for someone else!"
	D:	Play it cool. This is definitely a situation where he has to make the first move.

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