Dear Anyone - teen Advice  


  A:  You should go for this other guy and ignore the fl ...        30%
  B:  You should flirt back with your friend but not go ...        27%
  C:  You should ask your friend out        21%
  D:  Flirt with your friend but be a little more seriou ...        23%
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Dear Anyone,

I am 14 years old and I am having a problem with my ex-boyfriend. You see, last year we went out 3 times. I was hearing some rumors that he was cheating on me, so I broke up with him, even though I still did like him. The next year at school we became friends for a while and he called me up one day and asked if we could go out again. I said yes. He came over to my house and we watched movies, we went ice skating and we had a lot of fun together. But when we went back to school, he had obviously not told his friends that we were going out as he didn't really pay any attention to me.

At about the same time, he and my cousin started hanging out. Luckily, my cousin and me are very close and so she told me that he had expressed an interest in going out with her. About a week later he and I broke up and he and my cousin started going out. But the weird thing is, he paid more attention to her when they weren't going out. So after a week of them going out, he stopped calling her. They went out for a solid month and my cousin broke it off. So then, about a week or two later, he started paying a lot of attention to me... again. Her asked me out again. I asked why he wanted to get back together with me, and he said he missed going out with me. I told him that I would have to think about it. He still pays me a lot of attention. I haven't answered him yet, because for some really odd reason I still have a crush on him. What should I do?

Am I Being Crazy in California?


Vote for Option A   
A:  Go for it! Like the saying says, "the 5th time is a charm." Maybe he has learned his lesson and now appreciates what he has with you.
Vote for Option B   
B:  Let him cool his jets for a while. You should just be friends with him until he gains back your trust, and then you may consider dating him again.
Vote for Option C   
C:  He needs to take a hike! This guy is just going to disrespect you again and leave you feeling hurt and gullible for falling for him again.
Vote for Option D   
D:  First your cousin takes your sloppy seconds, and now you're thinking of taking hers? With the same guy? What's wrong with you two?

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