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OUR ADVICE FOR CONFUSED:
  A:  He's probably just to nervous to make a move. Give ...        39%
  B:  Just ask him how he feels about you.        29%
  C:  Wait for him to act. If he doesn't, move on.        32%
Total Votes: 1055

Dear Anyone,

Well, it all started about 4 weeks ago. My friend who is 2 years younger than me introduced me to his friend who is my age. I told my cousin that I had a little crush on this boy and she went and asked him out for me. He said no, and then without thinking about my feelings, he said that we could go out as a joke! Of course, this was not that funny to me. It actually really hurt me! I told him how I felt and he got really angry because I didn't just tell him! He also felt bad for the way he acted. Now he tells me the only reason we went out as a "joke" was because there is this other girl. When he and I talk online he always talks about this girl and in his profile he wrote this segment about her and how much they like each other and stuff. The weird part is that he told my friend that he likes me and he wants to go out with me but he never sees us actually ever going out.

Confused and Sad in Massachusetts

WHAT'S YOUR ADVICE?

Vote for Option A   
A:  Take control. Casually ask him out and see what happens. Maybe he is just shy.
Vote for Option B   
B:  Play it cool. Be your charming, friendly self and don't push the issue. Just leave it alone and see how things unfold.
Vote for Option C   
C:  Stop talking to him. He's is just playing you.
Vote for Option D   
D:  The guys always talks about another girl and you're still interested? C'mon, stop being so desperate!

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