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OUR ADVICE FOR SHE JUST STOPPED TALKING TO ME IN MISSOURI:
  A:  Tell her that you're sorry for whatever you did to ...        39%
  B:  The note sounds pretty ambiguous. You need to init ...        30%
  C:  What's there not to get? "Different lifestyles" me ...        31%
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Dear Anyone,

I have this really great boyfriend, the first real boyfriend I've had in awhile. He's a really nice guy and I know he loves me. But then there's this other guy who I've known for a little over a year now, and since I've met him I've been in love with him, I even lost my virginity to him. When I got my boyfriend I was still talking to the guy I lost my virginity to. The other thing is, this guy is 24 and I'm only 17, so I wanted to wait until I was 18 to continue a strong meaningful relationship with him. I'm afraid if I wait, I will lose him forever. But my boyfriend now is amazing, he's sweet and he makes me feel like I can be myself. The 24 year old is also so sweet and considerate, but he can be very jealous of my boyfriend, and I just feel stuck. I really don't know whether I should risk losing the guy I've been in love with forever, and be with my boyfriend who is amazing. Or should I just break up with my boyfriend, and the thing with my boyfriend is that we've both met each other's family. My family loves him and I love his family, and I don't want to risk losing that connection. My family doesn't like the 24 year old I'm in love with, so it's just a big huge problem and I need your help.

DAZED AND CONFUSED

WHAT'S YOUR ADVICE?

Vote for Option A   
A:  Break up with your boyfriend and be with the guy you love.
Vote for Option B   
B:  Stay with your boyfriend. Maybe things can still work out with the other guy down the road.
Vote for Option C   
C:  Stop leading your boyfriend on if you don't really love him. Stay away from the older guy too. That's just creepy.

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