OK. For the last 18 months, I've been with my girlfriend (and that's pretty good, seeing as I'm 14 and she's 13. We're young). Her dad doesn't approve of her having a boyfriend and doesn't know about me. He is SO ignorant to her, and always keeps her at home. He would punish her for the slightest little thing. And a bigger problem is that we live 20 miles apart, so she comes over to my cousin's house every Saturday (my cousin is her best friend). And she hasn't been trying to see me that much lately, and it's got me wondering if I should tell her about this problem, but I fear that she would get mad at me for it. I want to talk her dad into letting me see her, but I'm afraid he'd send her to some correctional facility. I really want to know what's on her mind. I really love her and don't want to break up with her, but with all of these problems, I dont think we'll last much longer unless I take action. PLEASE give me advice!