Dear Anyone - teen Advice  
 
 

 

HOW IT WORKS:

1. Read the letter below asking for advice about teen life.
2. Click on a smiley face to give your advice.
3. View the voting results in this box. Repeat.

Dear Anyone,

I am in middle school, and there is this one guy in the high school that says he is willing to stop smoking, stop drinking, and stop doing drugs if I date him, but the thing is, he is not very good looking. I mean otherwise he is pretty cool, but I don't think I could go through not being able to see him a lot, and on the weekends that I do see him, wake up knowing I could be with another guy who is a lot cuter. But the cuter guy says he is too addicted to drugs and alcohol that he can't stop. I've been in a couple relationships with guys that smoke or drink or whatever, and we don't really get along in the end. So should I go out with this guy who says he will stop his bad behaviors or not?

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WHAT'S YOUR ADVICE?

Vote for Option A   
A:  Go out with the guy who's willing to change. You might find love and straighten out a guy's addictions to boot.
Vote for Option B   
B:  There has to be physical attraction. If you already know that you're not super attracted to him, then why bother? Stay friends, though.
Vote for Option C   
C:  Who do you think you are, Mother Teresa? Is it your job to help charity cases? Guys who do drugs are bad news, and won't change because of a girl. Stay away.

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