One of the friends I've had since forever has been going out with this guy for almost a year now. Despite the fact he hates me, he's a nice guy, except my friend "Julie" has alienated me and all of our other friends for him. We all have put up with it for such a long time and she's nearly completely out of our lives, but I want her back. We have all tried talking to her but it doesn't work. Her boyfriend gets so jealous whenever she hangs out with us. What's worse is whenever her boyfriend's gone, she goes to us as her sloppy seconds, which hurts. How can we get her to be our friend again without being sloppy seconds?
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