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Love Advice


  A:  Give him a chance to straighten out the phone and ...        29%
  B:  Hold off on going any further until he comes clean ...        25%
  C:  Give him a little more time, continue to request t ...        23%
  D:  Your crazy for dating this man if he can't be hone ...        22%
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Dear Anyone,

My ex girfriend's mom just passed away. She is devestated and all alone. I am unsure of my feelings for her but I want to be there for her. Each time I try to go see her she tells me no (over the phone) yet she is asking me where I am at and constantly calling. She has also asked me to help with selling her mom's stuff and whatnot but keeps on wanting to put it off. I feel like she wants space but I see her falling apart. What should I do?

unsure of how to help


Vote for Option A   
A:  She may be afraid to ask for help. Just go over to her place and be there for her. Leave if she asks you to.
Vote for Option B   
B:  Wait till she pulls herself together. If she needs your help, she'll ask for it. Just let her know that you are there for her.
Vote for Option C   
C:  Try both A and B.
Vote for Option D   
D:  It's probably not a good idea for you to be too much involved since you are no longer dating. You don't want to make her uncomfortable.

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