I have been in a committed relationship for a little over 4 years. We have lived together for 3 and a half of those years. A year and a half ago, he asked me to marry him but didn't have enough money for a ring. I said yes on the promise that he would make it right. Over a year later and he has not delivered on his promise to me. Now I don't think the relationship is going anywhere at all. I'm restless and bored but he has otherwise treated me very well.
On top of that, there is another man who lives states away who I have been in love with from the first time I saw him. We have remained close though he lives hundreds of miles away and whenever I've needed him, he's been there. Though we love each other, we never had the timing quite right. He has asked me to marry him, he said he'll move me there, get me a plane ticket, pay for all my things to be moved..
It appears to be that grand romantic gesture I've been waiting for my whole life.
I am stuck and confused. Help!!
out of love but scared to leave,