Dear Anyone Love Advice  
Love Advice


  A:  Give him time and wait until he feels the same way ...        33%
  B:  Realize that if he doesn't feel the same way now h ...        22%
  C:  Tell him you didn't mean to say it and hope he bel ...        23%
  D:  Question his actions as of late and press his moti ...        22%
Total Votes: 1113

Dear Anyone,

I am 21 years old and have been with my boyfriend for 5 years. I was 16 and he was 19 when we got together. We have a 17 month old daughter and I am 6 months pregnant with our second child. He is kissing on a 16 year-old girl that he works with. He tells me that he loves me and would like to work things out with me later, but after he "does what he wants when he wants," as he puts it. I am so torn up about all of this because I love him, but I don't know how much more of this I can take before I break down. I recently found out that they tell each other they love one another. He says he doesn't want to be with me, but doesn't want me to leave. He wants me to be OK with all of this because if say anything, he gets mad and yells at me. I don't think I did anything to deserve this. I have always been there for him. We live together, and this is killing me. My nerves are so bad I can't eat or sleep. When I try to eat because I'm pregnant, I can't because I get so sick. He says a little part of him feels like this is just a phase and it won't last. I am so confused. Help.

Hopelessly in Love and Hopeful My Family Doesn't Tear Apart


Vote for Option A   
A:  Let him get it out of his system and wait for him to come back to the relationship. Like he said, it's just a phase.
Vote for Option B   
B:  Kick him out of the house. Tell him when he's ready to be a husband and a father, he can come back.
Vote for Option C   
C:  Take matters into your own hands and confront the girl. Tell her to stay out of your life and to leave a married man alone.
Vote for Option D   
D:  The guy is a major league A-hole. Protect your daughter and unborn child and move out. Trust me, nothing good will come of staying with him.

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