I have been in a relationship with my guy for 6 years. I love him a lot however I'm bored. Our sex life is not exciting and does not turn me on. We have discussed it many times but my guy tells me its not him, its me that need to initiate things. Well I have tried and many times he turns me down. I met this new guy over the summer who got me totally doing things I would not ever do. We have met up several times for dinners and to "hook up". I love the excitement my new friend brings but now I'm starting to feel guilty and also starting to catch feelings for my new friend. I don't know what to do. I have been with my boyfriend for a long time but I don't honestly think things will change with us. I'm very bored with me. I also don't know what my new friend feels or thinks of me.... any advice? Should I work it out with my man (even though I have tried many times) or leave him and continue having fun with my new friend?