I have known and loved a boy since he was 12 and I was 16. We've always kept in touch over the years, and he says that he loves me too. He is known to be a player and it is rumored that he is on drugs. I am married and have been for about 3 years with a wonderful man. I met my love again a week ago and we have been talking on the phone since. He says he wants to be with me and my baby. I just get upset if he doesn't call and it ruins my whole day. I don't know if I should get over him and be happy with my husband or give us a chance.