I met a couple online ("Ben" and "Kim") and had a short but passionate relationship with them. They broke it off after only a few months and it really hurt me. After a year and a half, Ben initiated communication with me, saying he wants to be friends with me. Even though they separated over a year ago, they are still friends and Kim has been telling Ben's new girlfriend about some of the crazy stuff I did when I was really heartbroken. When I questioned him about it, he said that it only bothers me because I am embarrassed. I know this stuff shouldn't be taken personally, but it has really changed my opinion of Kim, and of Ben for not saying something. My opinion has always been if you cannot say something nice, don't say anything. Am I just overreacting?
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