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Dear Anyone,
My husband is an addict. We have been married for nearly 8 years and have 3 small children together. He is speaking with a therapist, but continues to use marijuana and drink daily. His moods are stable for days then he goes back to being a creep for a day or two. When he is nice, naturally I have no problem being with him, when he becomes mean, I want out of the marriage. With the 3 children involved it isn't as easy as "packing up and going" and in between his mean days, I get comfortable again. Mostly everyone I talk to tells me to get out as he has shoved me four times in anger during the course of the marriage, has a great temper, and can be verbally abusive to me and the children. I am not a timid woman though, and can give verbally better than I get. Virtually no one however has advised me to stay in the marriage even though I know he is a good man deep down, and the children adore their father.
Ultimatums Not Working
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