I am a very ambitious 19 year old sophomore in college. All my life I've wanted to do random things like be a carni, write a book, and live in Europe. I've been dating an amazing 25 year old for only 4 months, but we've talked about marriage and 'settling'- something he's prepared to do a lot sooner than I was expecting to. We're deeply in love. But I need a man who can support my desire to live a little before I settle down, and he needs a woman who can move away with him in a year, and work towards starting a family.
My problem is in realizing where reality starts (i.e. are any of my goals accomplished) and where God or who ever plan begins (should I stay with him and hope it gives me what I need?). I love him very much, but I don't want to sacrifice everything I've dreamed. My motto is: Anything is Possible.
Free Spirit vs. Family Man