Dear Anyone Love Advice  
 
 
Love Advice

 

OUR ADVICE FOR BATTLE OF THE EX:
  A:  Let Him Go        39%
  B:  Give Him His Space        29%
  C:  Try to Talk it Out Even If He's Being Stubborn        32%
Total Votes: 1172


Dear Anyone,

I was dating this guy for 2 and a half years. We had a baby together and decided to put the baby up for adoption. The relationship began to get rocky after the adoption was finalized. I decided we needed a break to redefine ourselves and make sure that it was what we wanted. It was no doubt that I love him with everything within me.

About two months after the break up, he began dating several girls at one time. It so happened that he ended up getting one of the girls pregnant, and he was lying to me about it up until the girl was about five months. I immediately turned bitter towards him, because I was and still hurt. Eventually, I decided to try and deal with it, because we are both still a part of our child's life, we had to get along for his sake and I still love him. Well apparently he's about to marry and he says he doesn't want to, it just feels like the right thing to do. I am hurting real bad, and we talk often about how much we miss each other and how stupid we were to let each other go. It's obvious we want each other back. What should I do?

In Love and In Pain

WHAT'S YOUR ADVICE?

Vote for Option A   
A:  Let it go. He's got more issues he's got to deal with.
Vote for Option B   
B:  Keep trying to make things work between you two.
Vote for Option C   
C:  Do whatever you can to stop him from getting married.
Vote for Option D   
D:  Date other people to distract yourself from him.

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