I was dating this guy and we started dating at a tough time in my life. I was depressed and often situations would come where when he did something I didn't like, I got even angrier and took it out on him with harsh words.
After we were together for 1 month and 3 weeks, he finally broke up with me. 3 days after the broke up I told him I was ok with being friends. He said that we were still friends, but the only communication we had was in text messages. He also broke up with me in a text message. I did do a lot of things like pretty much begging him to talk to me and listen to me, but I stopped that. It's been 3 weeks and a few days since the split, and he still hasn't called me. I haven't really texted him or given him any attention for the last two weeks except for one text message telling him that I realized it was too soon for him to talk to me and I was doing fine.
I miss him a lot and I am capable of being just his friend. I have also been working on my flaws for myself because I didn't like the person I had become. I need advice as to whether I have any chance or should completely give up. He's really stubborn and his views are somewhat odd, so I'm not sure my withdrawal is doing much to him. He was my first boyfriend too and I'm 19.
Nothing from nowhere