Recently my first love contacted me through email. We haven't spoken or seen each other since we broke up 20 years ago. The emails are fun and flirty and we are really getting to know one another again. He is talking about coming to see me next year. He is overseas in the military. My question, which is stupid I know, deals more with my parents. I have had 2 bad marriages and when me and this guy broke up it wasn't pretty. My family is beside themselves that we are "talking" again because they think he is crazy. He has been nothing but nice thus far. Am I setting myself up to fall into the same loser trap? What is your advice? Please be kind :) Thank you!!