Dear Anyone Love Advice  
 
 
Love Advice

 

OUR ADVICE FOR LOST SOUL:
  A:  Stay and try to find that spark again        31%
  B:  Leave him        19%
  C:  Do a trial separation        25%
  D:  Start looking for a new relationship        24%
Total Votes: 860


Dear Anyone,

This man is my best friend. I have known him for about a year and a half now and he really means a lot to me. From day one I have thought that he is extremly good looking and the sweetest person I have ever met. (I have been through some rough relationships; e.g., drug addicts, drunks, and beaters). I get a good feeling from him every time I talk to him on the phone and everytime I see him my stomach flutters and I get nervous. I want him to know that I really love him but I am scared of having my heart broken by my best friend or him not feeling the same or something horrible. I know how he is with girls that don't really mean anything to him and that I mean A LOT more to him than any other girl he has ever met. (He is in a situation where I have to help him out a lot--incarceration). I don't want anything to change for the worse between us and I'm scared that if I tell him that I love him in that way he won't want to be around me anymore or that he won't want to be with me. Please help!

Hopeless

WHAT'S YOUR ADVICE?

Vote for Option A   
A:  You only live once. Tell him how you feel already!
Vote for Option B   
B:  Wait for him to make the move.
Vote for Option C   
C:  Sorry... did you say he's in jail?! How can this guy be a step up from your previous relationships? You are worth a lot more than that.
Vote for Option D   
D:  Stick to being friends. Being incarcerated can put a cramp on a good relationship.

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