I met my boyfriend through my ex-friend at work. We met over the summer but we never really talked. I was never interested in him and I knew he was a player, did drugs, always went to jail. He even used my friend for sex and dumped her. But all of a sudden, we randomly started talking through my space. We started texting and flirting with each other on Thursday. Then that same week on Sunday. We go out. But I knew he is a player and always like sex. He asked if I was a virgin. What should I do? Should I trust him? Should I listen to everyone that says hes a player?