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  A:  Yes when you are so busy and have no time for each ...        41%
  B:  Nope. You are just bored with the relationship, ge ...        31%
  C:  It's possible that being so busy is "adding to the ...        28%
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Dear Anyone,

I recently got back in touch with an ex boyfriend and find myself falling for him again. But everything else about the situation is bad - he just got a divorce, he lives 3 states away, and he's not ready for a relationship - let alone a long-distance relationship. I can tell he still loves and cares for me as much as I do for him, but the timing is all wrong. He says he wants to stay in touch and even keep visiting each other (we've spent 3 weekends together in the past two months), but he doesn't want to move beyond friendship emotionally. This is very difficult for me, as I am very attached to him and hopelessly (still) in love with him. I know he would never deliberately use me, but it feels wrong to just "be there" for him without getting any commitment at all in return.

Wishing he was my ex-ex


Vote for Option A   
A:  Stop contact altogether - he's unintentionally using you during his rough time
Vote for Option B   
B:  Stay in touch as friends, but don't visit in person anymore
Vote for Option C   
C:  Stay in touch AND keep visiting - so when he becomes ready for a relationship, you'll be right there already

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