I am in love with two men. One is my best friend (Joe) of 20 years and the other is the father of my child (Ben) whom I have been with for 5 years. I am so confused I don't know what to do. Joe and I had a relationship in the past and it didn't work out. But I am still in love with him. Ben is the father of my child.... Enough said. This is eating me up inside.