Help! My boyfriend and myself have been together for over five years and I love him. But a recently divorced ex-lover called and he has invited her to visit for a week at his house. He has told her that he is with me now and even arranged for us to go out together. I trust him but I think it is appropriate for her to stay at his house and disrespectful not to ask me how I felt about it first. He told me that I should trust him and that I am being too controlling and that he refuses to be "put on a leash because of my insecurities". I am so hurt and angry I don't know what to do!