I have been dating a man for 7 months. On occasion he says hurtful things. Recently, we were at a fund raising dinner, sitting at a table with a couple we had never met before. At one point he said, "She's a real ball buster". I was angry, hurt and confused. I tried to talk to him about how hurtful his remark was, but his response was to blow me off, saying that I was too sensitive. I need to resolve this issue because I know a similar situation WILL happen in the future and need to know how to handle it. I would also like to have a discussion with him and try to make him understand his remarks aren't funny ... they're hurtful.
Cold and confused in Buffalo