I am having an affair with a man in another relationship. We're kind of like friends with benefits. I love him, he loves me. We get along together great. His mom, brother and grandmother love me. We are in the same career field, enjoy the same hobbies, share same ideas, are sexually compatible. I think we are great together. I want to be in a relationship with him and not be friends with benefits. I know he loves his girlfriend too because he tells me so. They've had a rocky relationship were they are on and off. He has told me that I am smarter than his girl, sexier, more easy going, adventurous, and he loves our sexual chemistry, and that he should be with someone like me. Yet he always goes back to her. How can I get him to be with me?
Hurting to be with him