OUR ADVICE FOR CONFUSED IN LOVE IN HUTCHINSON:

	A:	Forget and let it be and never let it happen again		39%
	B:	Go back for more and see what happens		29%
	C:	Confess it all and let what happened be happened		32%
Total Votes: 1174

Dear Anyone,

I recently met a guy who is everything I ever wanted. We really connected and had instant chemistry. Although he has expressed what I accept as sincere feelings for me I have doubts. His wife of 7 years just left him 5 months ago. I know he's still hurt and confused, plus he hasn't dated in so long. I'm divorced with 2 small children so I stay at home a lot. He's enjoying his new freedom and I'm fine with that.

The thing is he feels guilty and lies about going out partying. We've gone back and forth over the status of our relationship (friends, dating, dating exclusively) until I just couldn't take the uncertainty and confusion anymore. I broke it off and haven't talked to him in a week. I miss him terribly and can't stop thinking about him. I know he will call me soon but I'm scared to talk to him because I could get hurt again. Is there any chance that as time goes by we could have something real, or was I just his rebound girl?

Real or Rebound

WHAT'S YOUR ADVICE?

	A:	Don't answer that phone girl! Be glad you got away when you did. He may not admit it but he's out to avenge his own broken heart.
	B:	Agree to date him casually but be somewhat aloof (and no sex). If he doesn't notice or gets pissed about the sex, then he just wanted a friend any way
	C:	If you love something set it free, if it comes back it's meant to be. Of course it may not come back for a long time and you'll have moved on by then.
	D:	Hold on loosely but don't let go. If you cling too tightly you're gonna lose control. He'll come around.

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