I have been in touch with this guy for half a year now. He says he loves me, and is darn sure to keep me in his life, but he does not walk the walk, so to speak. He doesn't call me. He doesn't text me. He hardly ever replies when I text him and almost never answers the phone when I call him (which is very rare. I wasn't raised to call guys).
The thing is, he lives across the country, and has a girlfriend that he says he doesn't love and who recently found out about me. I haven't heard from him since she found out about me, and I'm thinking that there's some arguing and discussing going on. I'm really hurting inside, because my gut instincts are telling me that he's lying through his teeth to me. When he says he's scared of starting something up with me, I scoff inwardly. I'm just so confused because I have such strong feelings for him, but I'm also getting fed up with his waffling. I don't know how to approach this.
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