OUR ADVICE FOR WORRIED STIFF:

	A:	Cheat alert! Divorce your wife		35%
	B:	Quit your job to save your marriage.		22%
	C:	Spice up your nights		21%
	D:	Organize family games nights		22%
Total Votes: 1323

Dear Anyone,

I have been married for three years now and had a baby a year ago. Since then I just can't seem to feel the same for my husband. I have a hard time even making love to him so I have pretty much quit. It's not that I don't love him because I do. I just feel that he doesn't find me atractive anymore or he is not happy. And I have tried to talk to him but he is not much of a talker. How do I save a marriage when I don't know what the real problem is?

stressed out in wisconsin

WHAT'S YOUR ADVICE?

	A:	Wait it out. Things will get better.
	B:	This can be normal after having a child. Get some counselling to help you through it.
	C:	If things continue going downhill like this, you may consider separation.

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