My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. We have a beautiful 1 year old daughter. We talk about marriage and other plans for our future. The problem is he tends to choose various things over me. When I try to talk to him about it he say I take things too far.
Example: If he decides that he is going somewhere, I later mention that I would like to go, he doesn't want to go any more.
Recently, we had an argument and he stated that he was going to stay with his sister. Earlier he declined to do the activity we had planned to do. It made me feel that he just didn't want to be with me. I told him that if he leaves then the relationship is over. There were other factors that lead me to give him this ultimatum, all of which I explained to him.
Despite this, he chose to go to his sister's house. I don't want to keep him from his family. I am just so confused. Am I taking things to far?