I've been dating my girlfriend for a few years. I do love her. She's the best thing that's happened to me in my life. The person inside her is everything to me. But she has gained a lot of weight. She's not tall and has a small frame. When we go out to eat I try to suggest healthly foods, salads, sushi, and other good non-fattening foods. In my own way I've tried to suggest exercise and health food without sounding like I'm telling her to lose weight. Her big belly and extra buckets in the back section are effecting our sex life. How can I get someone who I love to take much better care of herself without hurting her feelings? If she won't change, I'm thinking of moving on to someone who cares about her health.
Big Belly Blues