OUR ADVICE FOR WANTING MY LOVE BACK:

	A:	You blew it. If she won't have you back, you'll ju ...		38%
	B:	Yeah right, you "blacked out"! Don't use that excu ...		34%
	C:	If it was meant to be, you wouldn't have messed ar ...		27%
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Dear Anyone,

My boyfriend and I have been dating on and off for the past 2 years. We both established that we love each other deeply and up until recently have shown it. Because of this, we both have a decline in a trust factor. We decided to really talk about what we expect out of a relationship and I brought up that I don't want him going out with his friends (like one-on-one going out). He says he doesn't see anything wrong with him going out with one of his friends because that's just it--just friends. The problems I have about this is that I know his friends want something more with him and in some cases he'll tell me that he likes the body and the personality of his friend. So basically he is lusting after these girls. I understand that yes, we are both in college, but how can you establish trust in someone when they are out doing things that you feel uncomfortable about? Am I justified in giving him that ultimatum?

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WHAT'S YOUR ADVICE?

	A:	You are jumping to conclusions. This could just be a phase that he'll get over. Give it more time.
	B:	You're too young! Go out and explore your options with a boyfriend by your side.
	C:	You sound insecure and jealous. Is he banned from ever making another new friend?
	D:	You are justified. He should respect your feelings and not go out with other girls.

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