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Love Advice

 

OUR ADVICE FOR FEELING SEXUALLY HELPLESS:
  A:  Talk to her again. Even if nothing got solved any ...        32%
  B:  Just accept that ya'lls sex drive is different and ...        26%
  C:  Accept and understand that you have different sex ...        21%
  D:  Change your sexual routine. Give her a massage, ha ...        21%
Total Votes: 1468


Dear Anyone,

I am having an affair with a man in another relationship. We're kind of like friends with benefits. I love him, he loves me. We get along together great. His mom, brother and grandmother love me. We are in the same career field, enjoy the same hobbies, share same ideas, are sexually compatible. I think we are great together. I want to be in a relationship with him and not be friends with benefits. I know he loves his girlfriend too because he tells me so. They've had a rocky relationship were they are on and off. He has told me that I am smarter than his girl, sexier, more easy going, adventurous, and he loves our sexual chemistry, and that he should be with someone like me. Yet he always goes back to her. How can I get him to be with me?

Hurting to be with him

WHAT'S YOUR ADVICE?

Vote for Option A   
A:  Be bold. Next time they break up, sweep him off his feet and ask him to be your boyfriend. Don't wait for him to make his move.
Vote for Option B   
B:  You've got to stop having sex until you're actually in a relationship. Be friends and wait and see what might happen in the future.
Vote for Option C   
C:  Make him choose. You or her. He can't have his cake and eat it too.
Vote for Option D   
D:  Snitch, tell his girlfriend he's a lying dog, and forget him all together.

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