I have been friendly with this guy for 6 years, I consider him to be one of my closest guy friends. Just the other day he tells me he wants to be with me. I am taken by surprise because this is out of character for this guy. I ask him why now and he said it has been coming for at least 4 years now, that he hinted at it. So the problem is I was shocked and caught off guard and told him I cant do this, it wont work. But after having some time to think about it I am beginning to think that maybe I am into him also like he is into me. I call him and try to talk to him but he says he doesn't know what he wants anymore. My friends say that his ego is probably bruised from me turning him down but I don't now what to do. He wont talk to me anymore and I have no clue on whats going on. Should I give it another shot and try to let him I want to try to pursue things or should I just give it rest. I think I acted like anybody would do when one of their best friends comes out and says they want to be with you.
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