I've been working with this guy for over a year (we were both hired at the same time). A lot of innocent flirting ensued and then all of a sudden there came that "butterfly" feeling. We were both surprised, acted upon it, had great sex, and want to continue seeing each other. The problem is we're both marriend. We don't want to leave our spouses, but want to continue having an affair. Any advice? I can see it as a very long term thing and I am sure he feels the same way.
hopelessy in lust with my coworker