Dear Anyone,
I have been happily married for 11 years. I have never gone and looked for another woman. Then about a month ago I met someone at a conference. We just hit it off and ended up in bed together. We have since spent 6 incredible days and nights together and correspond daily. We have both truly fallen in love with each other-- again I have been happily married for 11 years and know what love is. This is it. I still care deeply for my wife and we have two great kids who I love completely. I am so incredibly torn right now on what to do. Whatever I do I will hurt someone a lot. Whatever I do I will hurt myself a lot. Do I come clean to my totally unsuspecting wife and crush her life, but let things take care of themselves by doing so? Do I continue to see my new love behind her back and see if we are truly compatible by spending more time together? Or do I break it off and spend time healing and always wondering what might have been?
Hurting and Confused