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OUR ADVICE FOR CONFUSED21:
  A:  Walk away. Love happens like you plan it in your h ...        30%
  B:  Walk away. He can't open up and you can find someo ...        24%
  C:  Patience is a virtue. Give him time and space.        23%
  D:  Love like you have never been hurt before.        23%
Total Votes: 1621


Dear Anyone,

I have been happily married for 11 years. I have never gone and looked for another woman. Then about a month ago I met someone at a conference. We just hit it off and ended up in bed together. We have since spent 6 incredible days and nights together and correspond daily. We have both truly fallen in love with each other-- again I have been happily married for 11 years and know what love is. This is it. I still care deeply for my wife and we have two great kids who I love completely. I am so incredibly torn right now on what to do. Whatever I do I will hurt someone a lot. Whatever I do I will hurt myself a lot. Do I come clean to my totally unsuspecting wife and crush her life, but let things take care of themselves by doing so? Do I continue to see my new love behind her back and see if we are truly compatible by spending more time together? Or do I break it off and spend time healing and always wondering what might have been?

Hurting and Confused

WHAT'S YOUR ADVICE?

Vote for Option A   
A:  Tell your wife. She deserves to know.
Vote for Option B   
B:  Keep seeing this new woman. Don't make any major moves for now.
Vote for Option C   
C:  You're playing with fire. Break it off before you get burned.

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