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OUR ADVICE FOR HELPLESS:
  A:  The easiest way to go is to just make sure he is s ...        29%
  B:  Tell him that if he's going to act like a big baby ...        28%
  C:  Sit down and agree on a number of times per month ...        24%
  D:  Get him to bribe you for sex. What do you really w ...        19%
Total Votes: 1071


Dear Anyone,

I have just started seeing someone (the first man I have actually liked in, oh, YEARS), and we're hitting it off quite well. I can see it developing into something, and he's expressed so too. The catch: in 2 weeks he's going on a previously planned 6 day cruise with an allegedly-former friend with bennies (AKA friend-with-benefits). He claims it's a platonic vacation but admits to some gray-areas. Because this is so fresh and not exactly a 'relationship' yet, I feel like I can handle this. That being said, I can't see 'moving forward' (i.e., becoming intimate) with him before the cruise because I think it would make me too vulnerable. I'm bummed because this is the first man I have even invited to my apartment in almost a year. What's a gal to do with this info, when she's finally found someone she can be with?

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WHAT'S YOUR ADVICE?

Vote for Option A   
A:  Let the dating progress normally
Vote for Option B   
B:  Don't do anything you'd regret until the vacation is over.
Vote for Option C   
C:  This vacation situation just sounds a little to fishy to get caught up in. Call it quits immediately

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