I was with this man for 3 1/2 years. We had a son together. He left me when I was 3 months pregnant. When our son was born he came around more and wanted to be with me again and start a family. He then left again and we didn't hear from him for 5 months. Now he just recently came around and has been there for his son. I have been trying to be cool with this but all I can think of is that he is going to leave again. He and I have been trying to be cool with each other. We have hung out a couple of times. We even had sex one night--he is always trying to get in bed with me. But I found out that he has been sleeping with one of his friend's sisters and staying with her till he can move. I can't understand what is going on. He trys to act like my man in public by getting close, trying to kiss me, and so on. Now the last week he has cancelled every visit and even when we were supposed to spend time together. He hasn't called. I still love him more than anything and I want to try to be with him and have our family.
Hopelessly in love