I am 29 and am dating a 40 year old man. He has been very nice to me from the time I've known him (over 1 1/2 years). He even wants to get married. My issue is that he has never lived on his own and is not focused in on what he wants in life. I on the other hand have a career and am working on other goals. When I am busy he always warns me that if I don't spend enough time with him he will stray. He wants sex every day, even if I am upset or going though something (e.g., the death of a family member). He says I have to think of him and I know how he is... I have not dated too much, but I do believe there are men that will respect when a woman is not in the mood or works a lot. I tend to be very idealistic so I need an unbiased opinion.