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  A:  Just be honest about it. Not saying anything is wo ...        33%
  B:  Don't risk it. Just fool around on the side and ho ...        22%
  C:  Keep your hopes in your fantasy life and nothing m ...        22%
  D:  Try to add some excitement to the sex you have wit ...        23%
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Dear Anyone,

I will entitle this "Against my Better Judgement".

I am a single thirty year old, recently laid off from my job. In May, I met a man while on vacation in South America who turned out to be one a love of my life. I say this because he was nice, funny and sexy and treated me better than any man I have ever dated. He also told me he wanted to marry me and have babies, but since then I've realized these were just words.

Ever since I returned home we have kept in contact and he has repeatedly asked me to come there in September. I had no holiday time before, but now I have the time so I almost booked the ticket. Normally I am a responsible person who wouldn't just fly 8000 kilometeres but "against my better judgement" I want to go. Keep in mind this man has admitted to having an older sugar momma, and I'm sure he has slept with a few woman since I left in May. I can't forget about this guy. I wake up and think about being with him; I think about him throughout the day. I am basically obsessed.

What is my problem??


Vote for Option A   
A:  You're not crazy to want some adventure. Go for it. Even if the relationship doesn't work out, you'll probably have some fun.
Vote for Option B   
B:  This sounds a little risky going to a foreign country to meet some sketchy guy you met briefly.
Vote for Option C   
C:  Make the trip but be sure that you have an out in case things don't go well.

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