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Love Advice

 

OUR ADVICE FOR HOPELESSLY IN LOVE:
  A:  Forget about him and just be friends. He is just u ...        30%
  B:  Take the risk and tell him how you feel. At least ...        24%
  C:  Maintain a holding pattern. Keep things where they ...        22%
  D:  Take a break from him for a while and see if he ch ...        24%
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Dear Anyone,

I met a great and gorgeous guy online and we totally clicked and hit it off. We live in a fairly small town and have a lot in common and a great connection. We exchanged photos and he is really good looking. When he saw my photos, he told me I was very beautiful. And when I told him thank you and how sweet he was, he told me he just call it like he sees it. However, I am very insecure physically because I just had a baby a few months ago and my body isn't exactly like I want it to be. He never did see full body pictures, just pictures from the chest up. So I am afraid if we keep talking and decide to get together, when he does see me, he isn't going to be as attracted as he thought he was. I saw pictures of his ex and she is gorgeous and tiny! However he says he cant stand her and that she makes him sick. I have friends and family telling me that I am just as beautiful as in the picture and looks obviously it didn't keep them together so I have nothing to worry about. I know I am not a cow or grass or horrid or anything. But I am insecure because my body just doesn't have what it did a few years ago. What should I do?

uncomfortable in my own skin

WHAT'S YOUR ADVICE?

Vote for Option A   
A:  Trust that he believes you are beautiful and know that if you really connect that well, then my few extra lbs. won't matter if the feelings are really there
Vote for Option B   
B:  Shy away your own insecurities and risk missing out on something great
Vote for Option C   
C:  Be confident and know that if he is worth it he will like and appreciate you just as you are

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