I have been married for 14 years and I have 3 kids. I married my husband even though I knew I didn't love him like I should. I was too scared to back out when I knew I should. I have been unfulfilled and lonely for a long time and have been very vocal about this the last 2 years. I came so close to leaving that my husband finally started to take me seriously. We are in therapy. The problem is, I still feel nothing - even though he is trying so hard - almost too hard. Another problem is that I am in love with a very good friend. I can't seem to stop myself from thinking about him. How can I stop? What should I do?