OUR ADVICE FOR CONFUSED:

	A:	Go ahead and pursue him and forget about his "disa ...		32%
	B:	Forget it! His issues will become yours.		23%
	C:	If he's good to you and makes you happy, what's th ...		22%
	D:	Don't make any decisions yet. Wait and see where i ...		23%
Total Votes: 850

Dear Anyone,

I was with this man for 3 1/2 years. We had a son together. He left me when I was 3 months pregnant. When our son was born he came around more and wanted to be with me again and start a family. He then left again and we didn't hear from him for 5 months. Now he just recently came around and has been there for his son. I have been trying to be cool with this but all I can think of is that he is going to leave again. He and I have been trying to be cool with each other. We have hung out a couple of times. We even had sex one night--he is always trying to get in bed with me. But I found out that he has been sleeping with one of his friend's sisters and staying with her till he can move. I can't understand what is going on. He trys to act like my man in public by getting close, trying to kiss me, and so on. Now the last week he has cancelled every visit and even when we were supposed to spend time together. He hasn't called. I still love him more than anything and I want to try to be with him and have our family.

Hopelessly in love

WHAT'S YOUR ADVICE?

	A:	I can suggest a couple places where this guy should go. Stop letting him use you. Love is a two-way street.
	B:	He is probably just confused about what he wants. Give him some time.
	C:	Whatever his problem is, he's not good to have around for you or your son. What your family needs is stability and this man can't give that.
	D:	Welcome him with open arms whenever he wants come back. Eventually he'll stay for good when he realizes that you'll always be there for him.

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