OUR ADVICE FOR CONFUSED:

	A:	Go ahead and pursue him and forget about his "disa ...		33%
	B:	Forget it! His issues will become yours.		22%
	C:	If he's good to you and makes you happy, what's th ...		22%
	D:	Don't make any decisions yet. Wait and see where i ...		23%
Total Votes: 1045

Dear Anyone,

I have been married for 14 years and I have 3 kids. I married my husband even though I knew I didn't love him like I should. I was too scared to back out when I knew I should. I have been unfulfilled and lonely for a long time and have been very vocal about this the last 2 years. I came so close to leaving that my husband finally started to take me seriously. We are in therapy. The problem is, I still feel nothing - even though he is trying so hard - almost too hard. Another problem is that I am in love with a very good friend. I can't seem to stop myself from thinking about him. How can I stop? What should I do?

wanting happiness

WHAT'S YOUR ADVICE?

	A:	Your feelings for your friend will go away with time - stay focused on your marriage.
	B:	Feelings for your husband will develop - keep working at it.
	C:	Feelings may never develop - accept this or move on.

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