Dear Anyone Love Advice  
Love Advice


  A:  Go ahead and pursue him and forget about his "disa ...        33%
  B:  Forget it! His issues will become yours.        22%
  C:  If he's good to you and makes you happy, what's th ...        22%
  D:  Don't make any decisions yet. Wait and see where i ...        23%
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Dear Anyone,

I ended my 4 year off and on relationship a month and a half ago mutually for difference in life goals. For a month we continued to hang out and have physical contact. He recently went to Germany for 3 weeks and is coming back today. I met someone while he was gone. This new guy is everything I wanted in a man that would make me happy, except he is unhappily married with a new child. We met at a bar and had an instant connection. I somehow developed instant feelings for him and we had an amazing night together. We decided not to exchange numbers due to his situation but that he knew where to find me if "Anything changes." The ex has been emailing me while overseas and has expressed how much he misses me and that we may need to reevaluate ourselves. I found myself incredibly depressed because I haven't seen the married man since and I've prayed for him to find me. I love my ex but we weren't right for each other specifically I am affectionate and he was not. I don't know what to do.

Potentially happy with a man that I can't have


Vote for Option A   
A:  Forget the man you met. It was a rebound.
Vote for Option B   
B:  Try to work it out with the ex. You both obviously still care about each other.
Vote for Option C   
C:  Don't settle in on either choice, you broke up for a reason. You'll find someone who will make you happy.
Vote for Option D   
D:  Wait for the married man. He's unhappy enough to go to you when he's an honest man. He can't be with her that long.

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