My boyfriend is in the service and was in Iraq for a year. I was faithful to him through that whole year, and really calmed down my partying, etc. He is now back, but lives thousands of miles away. He will not get out of the Army until about July, when we plan to move in together. He told me he didn't want me to go to clubs, or party since we were in a serious relationship. I was was in total agreement. But my boyfriend went out with his friends to the clubs and got wasted when he promised me that he would not. I know that he is faithful to me, but the fact that he did not come to me FIRST before he went really hurts my feelings. Then he totally denies doing anything wrong and accuses me instead of trying to control him! This is the second day after I confronted him saying that he needs to respect me, and he has not called me since. What do I do? Please help.
Dazed and Confused in Ohio