I have been in this relationship with my boyfriend, now finance for 14 years. We were to get married this year 2007, but we were to reschedule it for next year 2008. We have a two year old son. Now he was to put if off because of his 3 close friends (best men in the wedding). A couple of days we had an argument. It seems at time when we have an argument he is always bringing up the past constantly. I love him put he is just getting on my nerves. A few occasion I have told him he can leave me. I feel like to throw in the towel with him. Now he wants to know our status? What the future holds for us? Where we go from here? Help me.