Let me first start by saying that I am a lesbian. I have been dating this girl for 9 months and we are currently engaged. We are living together and we are both very happy. We have a wonderful relationship, we are open and don't hide anything and I know she loves me. BUT... I am jealous. If she talks to another girl too much I get jealous and I always worry that she is going to cheat on me, leave me or just stop loving me. She of course is also a lesbian and I even get jealous when she tells certain guys that she loves them (like old friends). I don't want to be jealous. And I do trust her, but I don't trust others that may come on her to her. She keeps saying that she loves me and that she doesn't want anyone else and that I should trust in the fact that even if someone did come on to her then she would say no. I want to stop being jealous! I know with us being in love that we will get through it but I even have doubts about that. A person can only take so much. What should I do?