I am a happily married man. However, I have become smitten with a co-worker. She is young, attractive, shapely, intelligent and funny. She has a great personality and we get along together well. I am self-conscious and awkward when I am with her because I want to be charming and interesting. Oh, to be single again! But I do not want to jeopardize my marriage. I want to know if this woman finds me equally appealing. I just want to feed my ego and move on. How can I find this out without giving the impression that I want to cheat on my wife? Or am I asking for trouble?
Playing with Fire in the Big Apple