My girlfriend and I have been together for about 6 months. She asked me to move in and now things have changed. She's totally stressed out from her work. We don't sleep in the same room very often because she has sleep problems now. She's not as cuddly as she was. She says I smother her too much and, yes, I'm insecure. I hate being in the other room. I'm younger than she by 12 years (me 32 and her 44). I want sex at least 3 times a week. At first it was great but then it dropped to once a month. Do girls get that bad because of stress that they want to be alone all the time and they talk about money and how poor I am etc etc? Oh yeah she has not had a man actualy live with her for 14 years. Why? I'm not sure. She says it's because it ever panned out. I wonder if she does love. I did move out three times because of my insecurity after we got into a fight. I know this takes away from some of it but can I get it back as well?