I dated this girl about 13 years ago when she was 15 and I was 17. We then talked again a few years later when she was in college and it didn't go too far from there. A couple of months ago she contacted me over email and we have been talking for the last 2 months. From the beginning she told me that her ex-boyfriend of 5 years needed time to think if he wanted to be with her. They were broken up for about 4 months at the time and talked very often. We have been inseparable the last two months, but she has told me from the beginning that if her ex ever wanted to try to work things out she would try. She told him about me and now he is trying to get her back. She says she is confused now and doesn't know who she wants.